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Dr. Deji Ayoade once shared a profound piece of wisdom that his father passed onto him. 🎎 "You may not know where you're going, but you know where you're coming from. Don't ever compromise yourself. You don't ever try to achieve anything by taking a shortcut." These words, filled with…

Dr. Deji Ayoade's journey to the American dream is a testament to the power of resilience and determination. 🌏 Growing up in Nigeria, he was surrounded by challenges and hardships. Yet, he held onto a vision of a better life, a life he believed could be achieved in America. 🇺🇸…

Dr. Deji Ayoade, a respected figure in the Pentagon, shares a powerful narrative about breaking stereotypes and fostering understanding in a diverse workplace. 🌏 He recalls a moment when he felt misunderstood by his colleagues. He took the initiative to address this, inviting four of them for a candid conversation.…

Dr. Deji Ayoade, a Nigerian immigrant, shares his unique journey of navigating life in the US. 🌏 His story is one of resilience and adaptability, a testament to the power of perspective. When he first arrived, he was blissfully unaware of the subtle biases and stereotypes that were often directed…

In this episode of the Color of Success Podcast, our gracious host, Dr. Stephanie J Wong, sits down with the incredible Elenor Mak. Elenor Mak's journey began with her quest for a doll that resembled her Asian-American daughter, Jillian. Frustrated by the lack of representation in toy aisles, Elenor turned…

In a conversation with Dr. Deji Ayoade, a fascinating concept was brought to light. 🎎 A certain lady on LinkedIn had shared her research findings on children, pinpointing a single attribute that stood as a strong recipe for success. The word was "Grit". 🏮 This term, often overlooked, encapsulates the…

Growing up in San Francisco, I've seen the city's vibrant hues and shadows. 🌉 Racism isn't new, but today, it's glaringly visible, thanks to social media's magnifying lens. 📱 Yet, there's a silver lining: our generation is rising, refusing to be silent or fit into stereotypes.🥢 We're mobilizing, speaking out,…

Imagine arming your mother with a whistle and pepper spray just for her daily commute. 🎎 The rise in anti-Asian hate crimes has deeply affected the mental well-being of many in our community. 🏠 While I'm privileged to work from home, the thought of my kids and elderly mother facing…

Remember those heart-to-hearts with family? 🏡 We recently sat down with our 11-year-old, especially after our 17-year-old dog's passing. It's okay to seek help, to lean on others. 💗 Schools, community groups, or even a simple journal can be your sanctuary. 📖 Finding your tribe, exploring passions, or just penning…

Ever reflected on the company you keep as a teen? 🌸 It's essential to be with those who uplift and understand you. Surrounding yourself with genuine souls not only boosts your self-worth but also shapes your journey. 🌟 Setting boundaries is a sign of self-respect, and when the path seems…

In this enlightening interview, Dr. Deji Ayoade talks about his unique journey from being an African immigrant to a nuclear missile operator in the US Air Force, and how he sought solace in storytelling. With a rich background in various fields, he shares his perspectives on the American dream and…

Sheena Yap Chan paints a vivid picture of the modern woman's life. 🎎 She tells us, "Yes, you can just put it out there. Even if it fails, at least you can move on." She emphasizes the importance of community and the power of asking for help. As women, we…

In a recent conversation with Sheena Yap Chan, we dove deep into the complexities of Asian identity and the harmful stereotypes that often accompany it. 🎎 Sheena shared that, within the Asian community, there's often a pressure to conform to certain expectations - to be hardworking, to be quiet, to…

To Sheena Yap Chan, the journey to self-confidence is a path as diverse as we are. 🌏 There isn't a one-size-fits-all blueprint for building confidence, because hey, we're all unique beings with different life experiences, aren't we? Learning from others who have navigated their own struggles, who have bolstered their…

On this interview with Sheena Yap Chan, she recollected the different roles Asian women have had to play, from 9-figure business owners to authors. It's a story that resonates with all women, a testament to our collective strength and resilience. It's a reminder that we're still navigating through a world…

In the words of Sheena Yap Chan, what is it that holds us back? 🤔 We're often bound by the chains of cultural, historical, and intergenerational trauma. The model minority myth is one such shackle. 🎭 But understanding these traumas, these invisible barriers, is the first step towards healing. It's…

Here's a little story for you. 📚 I was walking down the streets of New York, the city's hustle and bustle surrounding me. 🏙️ Suddenly, a headline caught my eye - "Asian women least likely to be promoted in leadership roles." 😮 It hit me like a punch in the…

There was a time when I was struggling, grappling with my own confidence issues. 🎭 I was searching, yearning for resources that truly catered to the confidence of Asian women, like me. But there was nothing. 🚫 It was a lonely journey, feeling like I was the only one battling…

Teenage years are often marked by growing pains and a search for identity. 🌪️ Today's teens face added pressures from social media and cyberbullying, making their journey even more challenging. As parents and educators, it's crucial to understand these unique challenges and offer steadfast support. 🛡️ By fostering open communication…

Ever wondered how the anonymity of the digital world changes us? 🌸 In person, we might think twice before making a hurtful comment. But behind screens, some find it easy to critique, impersonate, or even spread falsehoods. 🖥️ It's a delicate balance: ensuring a safe space without stifling free speech.❤️…

In this episode of the Color Success podcast, Dr. Stephanie J Wong interviews Sheena Yap Chan, the founder of the award-winning podcast, The Tao of Self-Confidence. Sheena shares her personal journey from struggling with her Asian identity to embracing it and the importance of representation for Asian women in media.…

Just as parents filter content for their children, adults too must curate their digital intake. The vast digital world is filled with both gems and junk. Remember, what you consume shapes your mindset. 🧠 Avoid diving into social media first thing in the morning or right before bed—it might just…

Is social media a net positive or a net negative for mental health?📱 I think it's both. It's a tool, and like any tool, it can be used for good or for harm. It's up to us to use it wisely, to seek out the positive, to share our own…

There's a quiet revolution happening. 🌱 Men, and in particular, Asian-American men, are starting to break the silence. 🗣️ They're stepping into therapy rooms, joining support groups, and opening up about their struggles. It's a brave new world, and it's about time. It's not always easy to talk about our…